A New Year's resolution is
a tradition, most common in the Western Hemisphere but also found in the
Eastern Hemisphere, in which a person makes a promise to do an act of
self-improvement or something slightly nice, such as opening doors for people
beginning from New Year's Day
Babylonians
made promises to their gods at the start of each year that they would return
borrowed objects and pay their debts.
The
Romans began each year by making promises to the god Janus, for whom the month
of January is named.
In
the Medieval era, the knights took the "peacock vow" at the end of
the Christmas season each year to re-affirm their commitment to chivalry.
At
watchnight services, many Christians prepare for the year ahead by praying and
making these resolutions.
There
are other religious parallels to this tradition. During Judaism's New Year,
Rosh Hashanah, through the High Holidays and culminating in Yom Kippur (the Day
of Atonement), one is to reflect upon one's wrongdoings over the year and both
seek and offer forgiveness. People may act similarly during the Christian
liturgical season of Lent, though the motive behind this holiday is more of
sacrifice than of responsibility, in fact the practice of New Year's
resolutions partially came from the Lenten sacrifices.
The
concept, regardless of creed, is to reflect upon self-improvement annually
Popular
goals
Some
examples include resolutions to donate to the poor more often, to become more
assertive, or to become more environmentally responsible.
Popular
goals include resolutions to:
• Improve physical well-being: eat healthy
food, lose weight, exercise more, eat better, drink less alcohol, quit smoking,
stop biting nails, get rid of old bad habits
• Improve mental well-being: think
positive, laugh more often, enjoy life
• Improve finances: get out of debt, save
money, make small investments
• Improve career: perform better at
current job, get a better job, establish own business
• Improve education: improve grades, get a
better education, learn something new (such as a foreign language or music), study
often, read more books, improve talents
• Improve self: become more organized,
reduce stress, be less grumpy, manage time, be more independent, perhaps watch
less television, play fewer sitting-down video games
• Take a trip
• Volunteer to help others, practice life
skills, use civic virtue, give to charity, volunteer to work part-time in a
charity organization
• Get along better with people, improve
social skills, enhance social intelligence
• Make new friends
• Spend quality time with family members
• Settle down, get engaged/get married,
have kids
• Pray more, be closer to God, be more
spiritual
• Be more involved in sports or different
activities
Success rate
The most common
reason for participants failing their New Years' Resolutions was setting themselves
unrealistic goals (35%), while 33% didn't keep track of their progress and a
further 23% forgot about it. About one in 10 respondents claimed they made too
many resolutions.
A 2007 study by Richard
Wiseman from the University of Bristol involving 3,000 people showed that 88%
of those who set New Year resolutions fail, despite
the fact that 52% of the study's participants were confident of success at the
beginning. Men achieved their goal 22% more often when they engaged in goal
setting, (a system where small measurable goals are being set; such as, a pound
a week, instead of saying "lose weight"), while women succeeded 10%
more when they made their goals public and got support from their friends.
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